Mrs Aletha Kotze

Registered Counselor

“I have been working for almost a decade with marriages, sexuality and trauma. I am happy to work online as well as internationally.”

About Me

I support individuals and couples navigating the complexities of marriages, sexuality, and trauma. With nearly a decade of experience, I focus on creating a safe, open space where you can explore sensitive topics. My online sessions offer confidential, flexible support wherever you are in the world. Clients find this approach brings clarity and practical ways forward for deeply personal challenges.

Approach

When intimacy, sexual identity or past hurts surface, I map patterns and co-create small, practical steps to shift everyday interactions. Whether we meet from Bloemfontein, in Afrikaans or English, or online across time zones, sessions are punctual and privately held. I blend focused listening with gentle experiments—communication practices, boundary work and grounding tools—and offer simple between-session tasks to test change. People seeking clearer connection, safer sexuality, or recovery from relational trauma often find this steady, collaborative pace helpful.

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Basic Information

Bloemfontein, South Africa

In-person & Online

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Services

Services Offered:

Counseling
A form of talk therapy providing a safe, confidential space to explore feelings, thoughts, and behaviours with a trained professional.
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Works With:

Adults
Couples
Individuals
Organisations

Area of Expertise

Scope of Practice:

Relationship Issues
Difficulties in romantic relationships, including communication problems, trust breakdowns, conflict patterns, or uncertainty about the relationship's future.
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LGBTQI+ Support
The unique psychological experiences of LGBTQI+ individuals, including identity exploration, coming out, discrimination, minority stress, and relationship dynamics.
Trauma
The lasting psychological impact of deeply distressing events, such as violence, abuse, accidents, or disasters, that overwhelm a person's ability to cope.
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